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| Bitch please. |
If someone says:
"Not be be bitchy but..."
"Don't take this the wrong way..."
"I don't want to be rude but..."
They obviously know what they are going to say teeters on the personal spectrum of workplace code. If you're warning me not to take something you say in bitch-mode chances are you've just turned the bitch-frequency to high alert (and I can say bitch because they allow it on television)!
I've come to realize that my honesty (yes. sometimes it can be hard to take) can come off as totally bitchy. I don't intend it to.I want to work on making sure my honestly is constructive criticism if need be - that I have a reason for my critiques and that I express them in a empathetic manner. Likability is so important in life, and being genuinely kind is what I strive to be every day. Yet there it's impossible to succeed at something 100% of the tome - like I said I strive. We are all human. Let's make a toast to laugh at ourselves (even in the workplace - whoops spelling error - OWN UP TO IT!), in our personal lives (so you said something rude - send a hand written card - shoot a text - a peace offering can calm nerves), you made your boyfriend mad (he can't resist bacon flavored chocolate - trust me).
happy friday dolls! Oh and if you need some tips for how to deal with the bitchy woman in your life I stumbled upon this gem of literature.
As you go out there and approach many women,
you will see some women are naturally bitchy when they
talk to strangers. Here arethree ways to deal with
these women.
you will see some women are naturally bitchy when they
talk to strangers. Here arethree ways to deal with
these women.
1) The Guilt Trap
The first way is to make them feel bad by
acting disappointed at them. Let them know that
their behaviour is incongruent with their image
and how disappointed you are. Say something such
as, “You know, you looked like a nice person so
I thought you would be interested in making new
friends. But I guess not. Pleasure meeting ya.”
Then simply leave and go back to doing whatever
you were doing.
acting disappointed at them. Let them know that
their behaviour is incongruent with their image
and how disappointed you are. Say something such
as, “You know, you looked like a nice person so
I thought you would be interested in making new
friends. But I guess not. Pleasure meeting ya.”
Then simply leave and go back to doing whatever
you were doing.
This will make the woman feel guilty without
lowering your own status.
lowering your own status.
After all, you have turned
the table around and made it clear that SHE is the
one who’s being the loser. Sometimes, a woman will
approach you and apologize for being a bitch
before.
the table around and made it clear that SHE is the
one who’s being the loser. Sometimes, a woman will
approach you and apologize for being a bitch
before.
2) Lower Her Social Status
The second way is to make her feel bad
by asking her friends, “Does she always act like
a bitch to new people?” Then turn to her and use
the guilt trap in front of everyone. Before anyone
can answer, leave and go back to do whatever you
were doing.
by asking her friends, “Does she always act like
a bitch to new people?” Then turn to her and use
the guilt trap in front of everyone. Before anyone
can answer, leave and go back to do whatever you
were doing.
By bringing other people into the picture,
you will lower her status in front of her own
group. She will feel bad in front of her friends,
and sometimes her friends may even come talk to
you after.
you will lower her status in front of her own
group. She will feel bad in front of her friends,
and sometimes her friends may even come talk to
you after.
3) Slam Her Back
The last method is to make her feel bad
by being a bigger bitch than she is. Say something
such as “Well, just because your parents never
raised you properly doesn’t mean other people have
to take your bullshit. Have a nice evening.”
by being a bigger bitch than she is. Say something
such as “Well, just because your parents never
raised you properly doesn’t mean other people have
to take your bullshit. Have a nice evening.”
Note that even with this method, you should
still keep your cool and say something positive at the
end such as “Have a nice evening.” This will
keep your social status high and make it clear that
she’s the unreasonable one here.
still keep your cool and say something positive at the
end such as “Have a nice evening.” This will
keep your social status high and make it clear that
she’s the unreasonable one here.
Just remember the following: When you
stand up to a woman who always acts like a
bitch in front of men, two things may happen.
She’ll either submit to you and feel the need
to please you, or she’ll get even more bitchy
in order to see if you will back down. If she
chooses option one, good. If she chooses option
two, then just keep your cool but stay dominant
without giving in. She’ll probably go crazy
cause she can’t control you, but eventually
she’ll fall into place. (If she doesn’t, chances
are she may have serious character problems,
and you should avoid her as much as possible!)
stand up to a woman who always acts like a
bitch in front of men, two things may happen.
She’ll either submit to you and feel the need
to please you, or she’ll get even more bitchy
in order to see if you will back down. If she
chooses option one, good. If she chooses option
two, then just keep your cool but stay dominant
without giving in. She’ll probably go crazy
cause she can’t control you, but eventually
she’ll fall into place. (If she doesn’t, chances
are she may have serious character problems,
and you should avoid her as much as possible!)
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